Roses:

From a guys point a view: I've spent the last YEAR of my life being separated, while being constantly told that there is NO hope of getting back together.

Despite this, I kept up hope, treated her well, etc etc all the while I was repeatedly verbally assaulted and told I was the one at fault.

I simply got tired of being a "catch-all" for everything that is wrong with her life. Every bad thing that has happened to her in her life is NOT my fault...and I'm not going to accept the total blame anymore.

If she wants to stay together, then she should have actually DONE something about it instead of leaving. I tried REPEATEDLY to get her to go to counseling, see a therapist, etc.

Women need to understand one thing, and understand it well....if you leave, then stay gone. We dont need you to keep torturing us with the whole "Well, MAYBE we can get back, maybe not" bullshit. If the woman wanted to work it out, then she would actually work. LEaving simply says "I'm too lazy to put any effort into this, and leaving seems easier." It is selfish..plain and simple.