<Deleted a bunch of useless defending of my post its not about me, Im already divorced, but for the record I am closer to being a mirror of her than him>

Hindsight being what it is, I probably should have posted some questions for clarification and offered sympathy for someone about to enter the divorce arena.

Skip: You have my apologies for me being an a$$. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family I sincerly hope you find the answers you are looking for.