Hello mrpat - we are going. I am making him take our daughter up early to get things set up and maybe, get some talking done. They really need to figure things out - sometimes I think I should just go to my mom's until they can control themselves and then I can come home and work on my marriage!

With any luck, once we all finally get there, being with our extended family will take our minds off things and give us a break. All my nephews (we have the only girl) are coming up to be with us - every single one. The only person that won't be here is my son, he is in MS in the Navy.

Wish me luck - I NEED it.