She wont let it go to court because she's afraid Ill enforce my parental rights. I would tell her I agree to sign over my parental rights to just break free from this entire situation, but I have no idea where she is, no address, no phone number, no anything. If someone could give me a pointer in the right direction on how to do the publication divorce, I'd really appreciate it. Do I need to contact an attorney, or can I file it myself, and if so, where/how do I file?