Immediately go to the police and get a copy of that report, it's free. If there was a call get that, probably $75. Get the officers's names and the one in charge of the taped calls. All those things are inadmissable without them to predicate the evidence in court. You will have to subpeona them, about $75 each. Get the address from the cops where to send the subpeonas. Do this right away a hearing is in 30 days or so, sometimes little as 10. The police only hold these things 30 days or so. Subpeona's take time to get received etc. Was an EMT sent, she went to hospital? If not no proof of injury. Get a copy of her sworn statement from the cops, you may have to subpeona that. If the report looks like the cops beleived her you'll need to subpeona them for deposition before court to discredit her story with lack of proof. You weren't even there when they came right? You need a timeline to the minute for court. And you really need a lawyer with experience with false DV reports.

The good part is you have your children. YOU NEED A LAWYER, get your credit card out and pay now or you will pay for the rest of your life! You need to immediately claim abandonment by her. Don't counter file the same thing, but you need to let the judge know what really happenned. The hearing on this will probably be ten minutes, five for each side. Not enough for the truth and the judge will er on the side of caution. Use that to your advantage. File an objection to her motion and file your own motion for restraining order and explain what really happenned, she is violent and self destructive, dangerous to the children who you are now trying to protect. Notice it to be heard at the same time her motion is. Give the judge the option of giving you all some releif from her instaed of just trying to defend yourself against one of a woman's best weapons.

Change the locks immediately and no contact with her. If she even shows up call the cops immediately and stay inside. Lock you and the kids in a room if she breaks in, it's legal but won't look good. Motion for her psych eval. The court will pay for this stuff. Do this BEFORE you have a heariing on her motion against you. Proven false DV reports often cost the woman custody, but she must be proven to have taken an officer off the street for a lie, if there's a gray area the judge will allow her lies because she was upset. You on the other hand if lying will lose your children and your assets, maybe you will anyway.

The bottom line is that this is a terrible thing to have on record that will be used against you forever, but if you do everything exactly right this is the kind of mistake on her part that could allow you to get rid of her without losing everything.

Good luck you'll need it.