well, I can honestly say I slipped in my emotional status. My stbx came over questioning me about paperwork he was in need of and knew I could help him complete it. I told him no! I told him I now know he has been lieing about his living arrangements and the circumstances of him being w/o funds after he contributes a bit to the children's expenses. He tried to deny but, then he copped to the truth and continued to say " its none of my business since we're about to finalize our D. So , I TOLD HIM SINCE HE FEELS NONE OF IT IS MY BUSINESS HE SHOULD LEAVE AND FIND ANOTHER SOURCE OF HELP W/ HIS BUSINESS. He acted as if I hurt his feelings..standing there for about 2 minutes or so and then walked out after I held the door for him to exit! I felt better after releasing so much built up resentment for him disrupting our family and taking time away from the kids. I have been truly nice in day to day situations with him..I had just had enough. Especially since he seems to take everything that happens so lightly.