I have a lawyer who is not the best in the world, luckily my wife thinks we are going to get back together so she is not hammering me. I have talked to others and they are getting hit with much more debt than I am so I should be happy. What I am looking for is what should I ask for? Examples already awarded are Standard visitation, every other weekend, every Wednesday, and 2 weeks per summer. I am thinking about I claim kids as dependants, I want some say so on elective surgeries, no move claus. What are some others that I should ask for? It always happens, you close the deal and people will come up to you and say, you should have asked for this or that. all Ideas are appreciated.