I haven't been able to post much lately because all the stories are all too familiar. I am the woman who stopped liking my husband. I am the woman that threw the D word around. I am the woman that was depressed and probably made my hubby feel like total crap. I am the woman that had a husband who turned toward another and found the love and all the good stuff that I should have been giving him.

Hind sight is 20/20. When my H told me he was leaving me for "perfect", I was completely crushed for someone that I didn't "want". I spent a couple of months in he11. I went to the counseling that I alway knew that I should have been going to, to get out of my depression, I started doing the things I should have been doing for myself and my boys.

Luckily, my H saw I was serious. Saw that thru all "that", it hadn't been all bad. Asked for another shot and I gave it to him. That was last June, we have made a lot of progress since then. We still have our set-backs, we work thru them.

I guess this post is to tell you you can get past all that, but it does take two. The first thing is to look into yourself. No marriage is perfect.

Best wishes to all the "I was that person"!