I am glad that we are finally through all the negotiations and the actual divorce has been granted. But I was dumb enough to agree that she does not have to vacate the marital home until she receives my retirement payoff, which will take at least two months!
This deal is my fault, of course, but the situation is intolerable. She has a boyfriend that she sleeps with every Saturday, and then comes back "home" at 5AM. We have a 5-year-old daughter who doesn't really understand why mommy is out all night. And I just can't stand the stress of my ex-wife flaunting her new relationship in my face. I never wanted the divorce, and now she does this, and takes the money that I was going to retire with.
Anyway.... Is there any angle I can use to get her to move out sooner? I asked my lawyer and he really didn't give it much thought. Perhaps it is as simple as that, but the situation needs a better solution.
Winston - it could be worse - she could bring the bf over every Saturday night. Just relax and DONT do anything stupid in anger. Do not talk to her in anger and definitely do not touch her. Otherwise she will have you thrown out of your own house and THAT would be a real shame since you couldnt see your daughter.
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