I've been married to a man for 7 months (hes active duty) and all of a sudden he wants me to move back in with my parents after getting into some financial issues without even asking me how i felt about the issue and now hes pushing for the whole divorce and doesnt want to help me out at all after promising me hes give me a car and help me out when he could ive been back home for 2 months now and still nothing .. even though hes still collecting Bah for me,what am i able to collect for spocial support if anything?Help!
This advice may be wrong, but its what I have been told... I am an active duty member. recieve BAh and all, and am paying my estranged husband. When we separated, I was put in the barracks by my command, and still recieving BAH. So as part of our agreement, I paid my soon ex 500. Now that I live in an apartment, I actually have to pay rent. However, I am recieving married BAh but live as single. So as spousal support, until we are divorced, I was advised by and attorney to pay him the difference between the two. Does your husband live in barracks, or on his own? what is his paygrade? how much is he recieving? these are things you need to know... then u can talk to him, or go to an attorney. That is all I know, hope it helps
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If you are close to a military installation go to the Judge Advocate Office and they will explain everything to you. Otherwise, get online and get the phone number to the one closest to you. I am assuming he is enlisted. Try to get the phone number and name of his First Sergeant or Company Commander and talk to them and tell them what is happening. It makes a difference if your husband is in Basic training or at a permanent station. Confused was correct, you are authorized part of the Bachelor Housing Allowance (BHA) if you are not living together. I am a Retired Officer and Personnel was my specialty.
Thank you so much for your help! hes staying in the barracks at a training base here in sc and makes it sound liek im not entitled to anything since weve only been married for 8 months so thanks for all your help!
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