i have been separated, not legally for 8 months. he moved out. we have a 20 month old. I don't want the separation. I realized now what I did wrong and how I took hin for granted and I have tried to make things better but he does not want it. We have been together 10 yrs. married for 7. He has not statred the process to get legally separated. Should I do more to try to get him back? How do I let go???
You didn't state what you did that was wrong, but my personal opinion is; if he wants to call it quits he has the right to. You can['t force someone to stay with you if they dont' want to. I can only imagine what you may have done, but it seems that maybe you should use this as a learing lesson ,and move on with your life. You may want him back,but if what you did is such a bad thing, have you thought about getting help for your problem? Tractormom