Not sure if this is becoming more common, but my soon to be ex husband has been a stay at home dad while I've been climbing the ladder, to the point of making high 6 figures. He gave up his career for seven years, but is only 45, has a college degree and is not unable to regenerate a career. He left me. He committed every possible violation of our Christian marital vows. We have 3 children who I want to care for, but I don't want to give him one more dollar than I an obligated to. I need to get out of this and move on, but how do I ensure he will be taken care of and I will not be "screwed." We're in mediation right now, but I'm afraid things will turn for the worse.