Divorce Support Forums: Family Court Docket... NOT!

Ok, i filed for divorce in July 2005 and since then have had an emergency custody hearing (to get my kids back from out of state), a subsequent temporary custody and support hearing, and a pretrial conference... all within the first 5 months. My attorney requested 1.5 days of court time back in early October 2005 for our final hearing.
It's now been almost two years and my case still has not been placed on the family court docket. When my county was publishing their court roster online (a practice they have since ceased), i was #65 on the list. But now i cannot get our local docket clerk to give me a straight answer as to when my case will be heard.
Is it unreasonable for me to be upset that my case is being ignored while newer cases requiring less court time are being heard week in and week out? I would really like to know who i can talk (complain) to to effect changes to the way cases are assigned to the docket!