eve1114
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Reged: 05/29/06
Posts: 1
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I do not wish to have a divorce, but the way I see it so far, You can be completely forced into something you don't want? How can it take 2 people to agree to marry & keep those vows & only 1 of them can say BYE, I want a divorce so your just S O L? When You didn't break any vows? AT LEAST I DIDN'T?
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KGrow
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Reged: 01/27/06
Posts: 3109
Loc: Colorado
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It's called no-fault divorce and it is practiced in all 50 states including Georgia. The vows you took when you were married were religious, not legal ones. Most people don’t understand their legal obligations in marriage until they go to get a divorce.
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kalobsmom
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Reged: 08/13/07
Posts: 8
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Don't feel bad! I don't want mine either! I'm furious that after 6 years he can just up and leave me and my son, and my future and happiness are in his hands! How do you convince someone you love to give it another try that, that's what marriage is, it's a working progress and that it's not something you say "Oh I don't want to do it anymore, it's work" WTF yeah marriage is work. Some people just don't seem to understand that, and that there actions effect everyone else not just them.
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jccabc
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Reged: 10/07/07
Posts: 1
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Hello, Iam a man--and I do not want to lose my wife in which we have 4 boys, after 14.5 years of marriage..Its very hard and I feel alone for the first time in my life. Everyone has always said that I have alot of friends, but its funny, right now I dont know if I do.. I dont understand why it is so easy for one to just give up on somethinmg.. Thanks for Listening..
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sasha76
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Reged: 10/08/07
Posts: 1
Loc: Georgia
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Hi all, just wanted to let you know another perspective. I am one of those spouses that this initiating divorce. But let me say that I DON'T want a divorce. I'm not sure if any of you know how if feels for years to feel that you're the only one fighting for a marriage. I was the one asking for counseling while he argued that nothing was wrong. I was the one making the sacrifices . . . Then eventually, you realize that love isn't supposed to hurt so much & you realize that you deserve better. Even now, if he were to say "I get it, let's work at it." I would consider, but unfortunately, that's not the case.
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