I need some advice. About 4 months ago I thought I married the woman of my dreams. Boy was I wrong. Before we tied the knot we sat down on many occasions and discussed what we wanted in a relationship and what we wanted in a marriage. All was good. Too good to be true, she said yes to anything that would make me happy. She confessed this to me a few weeks ago. To make a long story short. We are married now, spent thousands of dollars on the wedding and the honeymoon and I moved her and her three kids into my house. We don’t have any kids of our own. Thank God! Now she has basically backed out on all of her commitments as far as being a good loyal wife and friend. She does what she wants and when. She promised me a child of my own and she backed out on that also. I have a good paying job, of course and my wife a low paying job. So her and her kids are basically getting a free ride. What I want to know is this. Am I at risk for loosing the following?
My house. The house is in my name and the closing was done a few years before she ever came along.
My truck. This is in my name and paid off. Again before she came along.
We have no debts between us thankfully and thankfully no kids.
You can only imagine what I’ve been through. To top it off she wants me to sign a car note for her and she has no credit. Ha! Not gonna happen.
I need some advice. About 4 months ago I thought I married the woman of my dreams. Boy was I wrong. Before we tied the knot we sat down on many occasions and discussed what we wanted in a relationship and what we wanted in a marriage. All was good. Too good to be true, she said yes to anything that would make me happy. She confessed this to me a few weeks ago. To make a long story short. We are married now, spent thousands of dollars on the wedding and the honeymoon and I moved her and her three kids into my house. We don’t have any kids of our own. Thank God! Now she has basically backed out on all of her commitments as far as being a good loyal wife and friend. She does what she wants and when. She promised me a child of my own and she backed out on that also. I have a good paying job, of course and my wife a low paying job. So her and her kids are basically getting a free ride. What I want to know is this. Am I at risk for loosing the following?
My house. The house is in my name and the closing was done a few years before she ever came along.
>>>>>>>>>> No chance .
My truck. This is in my name and paid off. Again before she came along.
>>>>>>>>> Nope .
We have no debts between us thankfully and thankfully no kids.
You can only imagine what I’ve been through. To top it off she wants me to sign a car note for her and she has no credit. Ha! Not gonna happen.
>>>>>>>>>>>> File for divorce immediately , the most you risk losing right now is a few months spousal support while the divorce is pending .
-------------------- Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov
Sorry to hear about what you're going through, my husband and I are on the verge of a divorce as well and I had some of the same questions you have. We've acquired everything together though. You should be fine, everything that you had before the two of you were married is yours.
Mississippi is a title state which means normally the grant property to the title holder (unless there is a joint title). Also your truck and your house is not considered marital property since you already owned both prior to the marriage.
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