taryn
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Reged: 05/31/07
Posts: 2031
Loc: Hell...but im coming back up, ...
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im worried about your 'heart' here.
if you follow them take pictures, whatever,
it really wont make much difference legally.
(at least here it doesnt...)
but WOW are you going to ACHE inside,
with both anger and hurt.
please dont do this.
the pain will not be worth the gain.
taryn
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mistake#2
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Reged: 07/19/06
Posts: 3066
Loc: Florida
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[quote]The reality is that I am one of the few persons on this forum who is, hopefully, able to completely seperate logic from self-serving emotion.
Like all women with the slightest modicum of intelligence, Gigi knows perfectly well that I am right and, if the truth could be known, actually agrees with virtually everything I have said in this forum. [/quote]
You don't understand logic...instead you ramble about things that don't pertain to the situation at hand. I feel sorry for your wife for having to put up with you. She probably deserves more than half just for that crap, LOL. As far as Gigi agreeing with you, only in your dreams and her worst nightmares!
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gigi
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Reged: 11/06/06
Posts: 4674
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" I feel sorry for your wife for having to put up with you. "
LOLOL... Mistake, DARLING! You forget! JBar is the one who threatened to falsify a warrant to get her committed to a mental institution so she fled the country. She's no longer even TRYING to put up with him. But I do agree that seh deserves everything she can get out of his hands, for having had to endure his abuse!
Truly, Jbar, the more you open your mouth, the deeper you dig the hole of your own demise. If you'd divorced the woman back when you decided not to live with her, you'd never be here worrying about losing "everything", terrified, minute by minute, that she'll come back, tell the court what youv'e done, and get you on the VERY wrong side of the laws!
What a fool.
Oh, and to anyone who worried that I didn't respond to this earlier... does anyone think there was a need? Like is there anyone, even a newbie, who couldn't have recognized his contributions to this thread as clearly delusional!
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Rocklobsta58
Bronze
Reged: 03/06/07
Posts: 38
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Ahh...."DNA soaked panties " That one takes me down memory lane. After that your relatinship is toast.Even if you forgive you will never forget.My heart goes out to you if you still love this wench. And I feel doubly bad for your children.
Get a good lawyer. Get your head together..If you still can go out banging other women then get divorced and do it. Myself, I went out and had an excellent time gettin some strange.
Do your best to get custudy. Make her have to ask you to see her children. But above all,Hold your head up and get rid of her. Good Luck Bro.
Willie Nelson once said " The reason divorce is so expensive is because its worth it. "
The Rock
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stoltz
Platinum
Reged: 01/29/07
Posts: 1478
Loc: Texas
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gettin some strange.
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LOL! I haven't heard anyone say that in years (except myself). When I use that term, people look at me as if I have a tomato plant growing out of my nose.
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Retsparf
Silver
Reged: 09/13/07
Posts: 67
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you're way off track and full of too much drama here. It is not your job to fix his marriage and I don't think that's your intention. You want to gig him and in the end it will not serve you well. Stay out of his marriage. As for his job - you are playing with fire. You better know what you're doing when you attempt to get someone fired. Man - you sound like you're completely about vengeance and that's just going to poison you. You should stop.
You need to lay the smack-down on the wife and tell her to stop or it's over. If she waffles or sounds non-committal then you need to get up and demonstrate how serious this is by filing - immediately.
Infidelity may play a role in this issue but you'll be better served focusing on other strategies to protect your assets and kids (if you have any).
As for your computer - if it's a computer provided by her employer keep your hands off of it. If it's a home computer - h@ck away. Put a key-logger on it and learn what you can. Conversely remember that you can be monitored as well so be careful what you say online. Your goal here is not to document the divorce but to monitor her communications about what her response/strategy is in regards to you laying the law down about her cheating.
Lastly - you need to understand that infidelity is a deep character flaw. You better be darn certain that she is truly contrite for her behavior. You can end up on the receiving end of a very messy divorce if she ultimately files in the future.
Filing is not necessarily the end of your marriage. It can be reversed and it might be the wake-up call she needs. In my opinion it is better to be the filer than the respondent when kids and/or significant assets are involved.
As others have said - if this is a short-term marriage then it's better for you to act now rather than later.
The more you focus on the other guy and his marriage/career - you're going the wrong direction. You want out of this mess. That just puts you further into it.
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