Lesmusic1
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I'm sick to my stomach, I feel so alone. Now what?
My husband married me 3 years ago, I thought I finally found true love....now he tells me he doesn't want me anymore and wants to start getting devorce.
I was very sick when he met me, he was so willing to pay for all medical bills, but now all he does is ell at me about money. We have money, but I'm not allowed to have anything to do with it, no say, etc. The other night I had to go to do some work, I had no gas and he refussed to give me any money to get there. I ran out of gas. He hells because he works too much, then next month he hells because he's not getting enough hours it goes like this over and over again. We can go for weeks with no milk, etc. just cause "we have no money". He always has 5000.00-7000.00 balance in his account.
I can't take it any more and really scared. My name isn't on anything, he doesn't trust women. Where do I stand?
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Jada
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[quote]I'm sick to my stomach, I feel so alone. Now what?
My husband married me 3 years ago, I thought I finally found true love....now he tells me he doesn't want me anymore and wants to start getting devorce.
I was very sick when he met me, he was so willing to pay for all medical bills, but now all he does is ell at me about money. We have money, but I'm not allowed to have anything to do with it, no say, etc. The other night I had to go to do some work, I had no gas and he refussed to give me any money to get there. I ran out of gas. He hells because he works too much, then next month he hells because he's not getting enough hours it goes like this over and over again. We can go for weeks with no milk, etc. just cause "we have no money". He always has 5000.00-7000.00 balance in his account.
I can't take it any more and really scared. My name isn't on anything, he doesn't trust women. Where do I stand? [/quote]
Are there any children?
Well, you have a share in all of the money earned and saved during the marriage.
But given that it is a short-term marriage, I seriously doubt you will be awarded alimony.
You really are better off contacting an attorney in your area. They are more familiar with your laws and the way the judges rule than anybody on this board is.
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jbar
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He always has 5000.00-7000.00 balance in his account.
I can't take it any more and really scared. My name isn't on anything, he doesn't trust women. Where do I stand?
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It sounds to me as if he is working hard--maybe too hard--but still "not getting enough hours" to get ahead. If his bank account stays about the same, then would you like for him instead to draw it down to satisfy your wishes for goodies?
Perhaps the fact that you are here, getting advice from idiots to see lawyers, is clear justification for his "not trusting women"!
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hopefull
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Dude your so cold..this women should have rights and this controlling person is a jerk..she deserves some goodies..J I wonder how you treat women..I'd stay away from cheap, insensitive jerk..I bet your have a great life (NOT).maybe you need a life...try to have compassion..and there are always 2 sides. Should we say all men shouldn't be trusted??? There are some good guys out there that are not comparing and figuiring out how they got cheated...lighten up
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boothby171
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Jbar,
Lesmusic1's only specific complaint was that she ran out of gas, and you immediately equate that to "wanting goodies." Glad to see you're still the same old misogynistic a-hole we've all come to recognize as a troll.
Lesmusic1,
Most people block "jbar," unless they're big into masochistic self-abuse. If you search out a number of his posts, you'll see that he is a bitter, lonely, woman-hating sort of guy. He's safe to ignore.
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My goal: Once a day, make someone laugh so hard that their soda comes out their nose
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jbar
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Lesmusic1's only specific complaint was that she ran out of gas, and you immediately equate that to "wanting goodies."
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Why did she seem to specifically avoid mention of the purpose of the trip? Unless she is even dizzier than I think, she should have made sure she had enough gas to start with. That is, of course, unless she was making a trip of which her husband would not approve (to a lawyer, to buy unecessary goodies, etc.) and preferred to take a chance on running out of gas rather than ask her husband for money for some, planning beforehand to blame him if she ran out. I was married to a woman like that; she would do things to get in trouble in ways like this to "teach me a lesson".
Serves her right!
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boobaa
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hey, at least she can look at your posts, jbar, and discount them immediately as coming from the lower orifice of a bitter and broken human being.
I hope you find peace someday.
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My religion is simple. My religion is kindness.
- Dalai Lama
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hopefull
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Loc: Michigan
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If you have nothing nice to say..DON'T SAY IT...I WISH YOU WOULD LEAVE...YOU MAKE ME SICK..I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU...DO YOU HAVE ANY FRIENDS? OR YOU JUST HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM AND YOU FEEL BETTER KNOCKING EVERYONE DOWN..THERE IS NO PROOF OR EVIDENCE OF WHAT YOU SAY...YOUR NOT G-D OR A JUDGE YOU JUST HYPOTHESISING AND JUST CRUDE..MAKE LIKE THE WIND A BLOW!!!!!! YOU SORRY SOUL
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ssrachel
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jbar,
read her original post again...she did mention where she was going.
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What you reap is what you sow and so it goes...
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jbar
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read her original post again...she did mention where she was going.
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Well, if she was going to do some work, maybe it was to get some money to pay a lawyer to clean him out and steal his kids. I would not have bought her any gas either.
Edited by jbar (11/10/07 03:32 PM)
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