i-luv-my-husband
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Reged: 07/18/06
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last 4 months ago, when i went visit to my own country my husband told me that he didnt love me no more, i didnt believe it cause he didnt tell me that in person so when i came back he still accept me and he said he was touch but now he never say he loves me, he slept turn his back from me, he never kiss me, never say goodbye when he's goin to work, never say goodnight if i didnt tell him, sometimes i notice that if i say i love him, he didnt reply, he just said ok. im so hurting everyday, i always cried, i talked to him but he's so mad and he just told me that if we work it worth, we will live happy ever after, but if we're not, we just accept it. the problem is i love him so very much with all of my heart. i want to save our marriage. he said i will never have children with him, i said its ok. he was left by 2 women already and got 2 kids each women. but i told him before we got married that its ok with me, all i want is he just love me forever and so is mine. i want to save our marriage. i want me and him to be happy forever. i dont want divorce. pls help me... im so very confused..i appreciate if there's somebody give a piece of advice for me. im so lonely everyday and i cried everynight because of that. I really need help.
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boothby171
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Reged: 03/14/06
Posts: 1392
Loc: NY
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ILMH,
It sounds like you and your husband should try and find some couples counseling.
It sounds like there's a lot going on, and we (on this forum) aren't going to be able to see or understand enough of it. You say your husband's mad (but it sounds like he's not mad at you). You say he's been left by 2 women before. he may be afraid of rejection,. of being left again. Your going to your own country may have accidentally triggered that response in him (it's not your fault; you should be able to visit your homeland, n'est-ce pas?)
Everybody has issues, some large, some small, but no one is free from them. You may have stumbled across an important one for your husband. You two would need to see someone who can dig deeper into what's troubling him (and in a more sensitive way than we can here on an Internet forum! You need precise instruments, not large boulders being hurled about!)
Good luck, and keep posting to let us know how you're doing. Remember--putting your feelings to words also helps YOU!
--Steve
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