My stbx moved out a week after our aniversay, july 28th. he now has a girlfriend who is 2-3 months pregnent. I was just getting over him; looking forward to the future, when all of this fell into my lap. now I want him because he is with her? I don't know. I don't understand these feelings. He was obviously involved with this person before he left. I am so hurt and devistated. Am I having these feelings because I just don't want him with her. She is having the baby I begged him for.
O, I feel so sorry for you. Especially that line about the baby you wanted to give him. Just think about how worthless he is and how you do not need his drama.
I think you have a little competitiveness and want him out of competition, I would not blame you.
Thank you. I think you hit the nail on the head. The night before I found all of this out, he told me he still loved me. I really need to stop living for his approval. I've told friends before, I rather be misreable then alone. This is why we were married for 7 years. It was never a happy marriage. I really just want to be happy. To love and to be loved.
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