I have a feeling my husband wants to take everything - just from what he is saying. My lawyer says that any assets accumulated during the marriage "by law" must be split equally between both and also debts. When it's all said and done my settlement if splitting half would be around 30,000. Can my husband really try and not give me a nickle? He was saying something like "I'll give you 10,000." My lawyer said it's not his money to give or mine it's ours.
So I take it your not divorced yet. Here is the deal if the judge catches any wind from this you will get more than an equal split. You will get more than an equal split anyways. The only thing that will hinder that is if you go running off at the mouth in court. I am assuming by your story your ex will hang himself in court.
The court seems to favor the ladys in WA.
You will need to give more details if you want a more specific answer though. Not enough info here.
Are there kids involved because if there is he will most likely lose everything and walk away with the shirt on his back.
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Well we have agreed to 50/50 custody. That part is good. The financial part is not going so good. He keeps telling me he is only giving me 10,000. I told him that it wasn't up to him that we split 50/50 in Washington. He is just being a jerk.
I am glad you worked the 50/50 out. My Ex won't do it because the state doesn't usually do it and she listens to the lawyer and not her heart. she sucks. You rock.
Don't worry about it so much you will get what is deserved. He is hurt and lashing out at you.
Is he paying more for the house now? I had to keep paying for over a year then when the divorce happened then I had to split 50/50 I didn't think that was fair and I don't get 50/50 of the kid.
Sounds like you will be OK,
Keep me posted.
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