Unlike child support, spousal support is often very difficult (if not impossible) to modify after the divorce is final, so getting it right the first time is a must!
Can adultery from 21 years ago and loss of teaching certificate 13 years ago have anything to do with spousal support or division of martial property including retirement. Marriage of 27 years. I worked all 27 years. Ex makes 87k a year, I make 35k. Both childrn are adults