I have a few questions. Thing have gotten crazy and we're not sure what's going to happen.
My fiancee is going through a messy divorce. She's been a mother and a housewife having never worked. They've been seperated for over a year. They have two young children. He's putting up a fight trying to take full custody because he claims he doesn't want me around his children. I'm not a bad person but once early in my fiancee and mines relationship we got in a really bad drunken argument (the kids were not living with us) which resulted in me getting charged with domestic violence ( a huge misunderstanding ) We went and had the charges dropped but the arrest is still on the record.
Is there any way to clear my name?
The divorce is not over but he has it in the court order that she is to not have any male around the children and my name listed specifically!
And... as if things aren't going rough enough... She's now pregnant with my child. How is that going to affect the divorce if it gets drug out long enough where she can't hide the pregnancy?
I have to clear my name so we can start our new life together and she can still be with their children. Her husband is/was very controlling and still thinks they can work things out. He won't let down and comprimise. She doesn't want the house. She only wants 50/50 custody. If her husband would just let go and settle and realize that I am not a bad person, then we could get married and he wouldn't have to pay allamony.
[quote]I have a few questions. Thing have gotten crazy and we're not sure what's going to happen.
My fiancee is going through a messy divorce. She's been a mother and a housewife having never worked. They've been seperated for over a year. They have two young children. He's putting up a fight trying to take full custody because he claims he doesn't want me around his children. I'm not a bad person but once early in my fiancee and mines relationship we got in a really bad drunken argument (the kids were not living with us) which resulted in me getting charged with domestic violence ( a huge misunderstanding ) We went and had the charges dropped but the arrest is still on the record.
Is there any way to clear my name?
>>>>>>>>>>>> No .
The divorce is not over but he has it in the court order that she is to not have any male around the children and my name listed specifically!
>>>>>>>>>>>> That can happen .
And... as if things aren't going rough enough... She's now pregnant with my child. How is that going to affect the divorce if it gets drug out long enough where she can't hide the pregnancy?
>>>>>>>>>>> The child is legally a child of the marriage ( meaning her husband is legally the father ) up until 300 days AFTER the divorce is granted . you're making an even greater mess .
I have to clear my name so we can start our new life together and she can still be with their children. Her husband is/was very controlling and still thinks they can work things out. He won't let down and comprimise. She doesn't want the house. She only wants 50/50 custody. If her husband would just let go and settle and realize that I am not a bad person, then we could get married and he wouldn't have to pay allamony. [/quote]
>>>>>>>>> I'd be concerned as well .
-------------------- Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov
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