Me and my wife have split up and in the process of starting a divorce. We both agreed that we were both unhappy and thought it would be for the best. I have never really thought about it until now but I have decided that i really do love her and would like to spend the rest of my life with her. But over the course of the years i have made some really stupid mistakes. Now after all this time she is now bring them up and says that she has real trust issues with me and that i drink to much.
She also has a lot of issues from here marriage before me that has surfaced now. I have asked her about working it out but she says she needs time but I don’t want to be hanging on to a dream that is not going to happen.
Do you think it is worth the effort to try to get here back or do you think she is too far gone?
sorry for posting so late...i think almost any marriage is worth a try. you didn't elaborate, but ask yourself...did you do everything in your power to try to save your marriage? yes, it takes two, but maybe if you start working on yourself, your wife will see that and want to work on herself and your marriage. good luck.
kat
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