Many of us have ex-husbands that wouldn't admit they had abuse, anger and violence issues. That's why many of us are divorced, they couldn't get help if they couldn't admit they had a problem. I've given up on him understanding that. Instead I'm getting help for myself and my children and trying to minimize the damage that has already been done. Their behavior is about control, whether its that they feel they don't have control over their spouse or no control over themselves who knows. It's a very selfish behavior and unfortunately he's never been able to look past his own needs and wants to see what's best for his family. It's not easy but it does get easier every day. Your in the right place for support.
-------------------- **2 1/2 weeks to go...should start counting down the days**
Mine is going to trial with jury...The State of Ill. is proscueting him for Domestic Abuse....He claims he is not guilty....Maybe...he has a double(in his head)...because it's never his fault...Major Losers
I haven't met one yet that will admit it. Don't believe I have ever met one that has recovered either. My "ex" calls it,that we had our "little" problems,as if it was normal. Focus on yourself,and forget about him. I can tell you from experience any minute you spend thinking about him or why is better spent on you. Good luck
My ex is in a diversion program offered to first time offenders and he blames me... It was just a little fight with his son..(he attacked from behind and I had to throw him to the ground to stop the attack)...the city would not have prosecuted if I didn't insist... I made a police report and never talked to them again...I am a witch to have done this to him...They are so blameless, but proving it is a problem and even after they serve their punishment they still will deny
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