VERY similar situation as mine. He was very passive aggressive and if I didn't agree, then I was going against, "what was best for everyone." He never considered anyone else's point of view or experience, it was always his way or the highway. Knowing this is his personality and that it likely will never change, I am grateful to be free of the relationship.
-------------------- Everything now is as it should be.
I can't get over how many of us were connected to those stbx (or ex's)whose philosophy was "my way or the highway". It really is such a relief to finally be free when they are gone, but it still hurts when they take one final whack at us by leaving for someone else.
And then after they are gone they have the nerve to still want to control our lives and get mad when we have the backbone to keep them from crossing those boundaries again.
Oh well consider it a test ,Msty, and you passed with flying colors.
Christine
-------------------- This is the first day of the rest of my life. Or maybe tomorrow will be.