Thanks for all your replies. It means alot to know that there are good people out there. I'm still struggling to get through this, and I'm at my house for my kids. But She and I aren't talking ever since they threatened to EROD her back to the states, and leave the kids with me if she didn't cut out her threats and aggressive behavior.
Considering the fact that she is physically abusive I dont understand why they wouldn't EROD her back to the USA. I also reside in Germany and we have sent back several spouses (male and female) who have been physically and emotionally abusive towards the soldier. Im having a hard time believing that there isn't another side to the story. Being a spouse overseas is very difficult, it has been the demise of my marriage as well. My husband has changed dramatically, by becoming emotionally and mentally abusive...I recommend you get that barracks room, seek mental help through the mental health care services, and avoid your spouse 100% Even with children, the military provides services to assist you to see your children and still raise your children. What kind of environment is that for your two kids to see you and your spouse fight,argue and bicker...its times to move on and grow up and think more about your children than the sex.
I'm the ex-wife of a military man. You cannot, repeat, CANNOT, sleep with someone else while you are still married. You can ruin your career if you get caught, and I know that you are well aware of this. I understand your need to be with the children, and how difficult it is to leave the wife. You are suffering from the same PTSD that abused wives go through. That's what's making it so difficult to leave. So, here's the thing, go to Behavioral Svcs, or Mental Health or whatever it is that they're calling it these days. You need help to regain your self-esteem, and explore the reasons that you cannot seperate yourself from this abusive situation.
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