dbkb2006
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My ex and I have been going trough a divorce for over 2 years now. he fought me for custody once and lost. I have recently got engaged to my b/f of 2 years and he is military. I put in a request for removal from the state and he is now trying to fight me for custody again. he is thousands behind in child support, he doesnt get the kids when he is suppose to and his live in g/f is not allowed within 500 ft of our kids. (court order) does anyone think he has any grounds to stop me from moving? also i had bought a car before we were married and it is strictly in my name only. i was trying to be nice and let him drive it as long as he showed me prrof of insurance and got it all out of my name. he has had a year and a half to do this and hadnt. so my lawyer told me to go and take it back. i did and he is now trying to tell me i am going to get arrested for taking it cuz he has the title saying he is the buyer. the bank had a lien on it. so if he does have it he had to pay the loan off. but there is no bill of sale and i didnt sign it over to him. is this all a line of crap? if he does have the title i dont think the bank did it legally. am i right or not? please help??????????/
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infinity386
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Reged: 02/24/08
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A) you should not take kids away from their father.
b) Who ever has their name on the title is who the care belong to. But what does it matter? if you gave it to him let him have it. don't try and take it back because your upset.
c) Make your life simple. Work out a joint custody agreement you can live with. Then take up a hobby to occupy all the time you will have to yourself because you no longer spend it fighting with your X.
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dbkb2006
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Im not taking the kids from their father. He is still going to get visits on their breaks. Well thats if the court tells him he can. He is about to go to supervised visits. and the whole car thing i am not doing it cuz i am upset. I am doing it cuz he is not providing me with the info he is suppose to and he was suppose to get it out of my name which he hasnt and has had over a year to do.
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mistake#2
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Loc: Florida
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You can call the bank and ask if the lien has been released, since it's in your name they will give you the information...but if he hasn't been paying for the vehicle, then it's on your credit. Unless I am misunderstanding what your saying there. Or you could ask the Department of motor vehicles for a replacement title.
As far as him being able to keep you from moving out of state, not if he's not exercising his normal visitation and if your able to prove that it is bettering your kids situation and yours by moving. Expect a uphill battle however if he's intent on keeping you in the state.
Another suggestion is to ask that he sign a paper allowing you to move out of state...you have to make it worth him doing it however for him to agree.
I did this with my first ex and he willingly agreed to have a new order put in to allow me to move with some creative thinking on my part.
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infinity386
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Moving the kids out of state is essentially taking/reducing his time with his kids. Hence the very reason the law was made. Think about it, why else would they have a law for such a thing? Ask yourself, would you like it if he took the kids out of state?... I'm guessing the answer is no.
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dbkb2006
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I went to court and got full sole custody and get to take the kids wherever i want. He doesnt pay child support, he lies to the kids, the kids cry when they have to go with him, he doesnt even get the half the time when he is scheduled to. I am just so glad this is all about to be over. We go on the 11th for his contempt of court and they are scheduling the date then for us to come in and sign everything. Its finelly almost done. YES!!!
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