Divorce Support Forums: I am so confused!!!

Hi, I just registered to this site because I just don't know what to do anymore. My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We just got married in August. We have always gotten along great. Not a lot of fighting or anything like that. We have always had this spark that many of our friends say they wish they had. People have envied our relationship. However, there have been problems with his mother. She has pushed him out of her life and then apoligized and pushed him out over and over. This just keeps happening. Somehow through all of this I got brought in to the picture by her constantly running me down to him. I have never done anything wrong to her. Her and I used to be the greatest of friends until he told her we were getting married. She shut me out. So she has caused us some pain in our marraige. I am now 4 and half months pregnant. The day before Mother's Day my husband decided that he was going to drink beer all day long. When I went to pick him up that night he was fine, until we got into the truck. He started screaming at me about not using cruise control and asked if he could buy a new truck. I told him that I didn't care he could buy whatever he wants. He got mad saying that I was being sarcastic and calling me names. When we got home he said he was done he was sick of me. I was devastated he has never acted this way towards me. I begged him to stay I didn't want him to drive drunk. I cried and cried and he didn't care. He left and went to his mother's house. Within the next three days he threatened me with taking everything and even our child when it's born. He shut off all of the utilities my cell phone everything. He came over got some of his stuff I wouldn't let him have everything he wanted because he wanted to empty the house. So within this three day period he did all of this and filed for divorce. I just don't understand what happened. I know that he doesn't have a girlfriend or anything to that effect. It was a few days before I talked to him. He was not nice. Then he went back to work. He works away from the home for 28 days at a time. I had been trying to get a hold of him because I had some of his mail I was wondering what he wanted me to do with it. He had his father call me stating that his mother told my husband that I had a restraining order on him. Which is a total lie. He was scared to call me. Finally that evening he did. We had a great talk he was the man I married the wonderful man. He was very apologetic stating he took things to far, However, he was going to think about reconciling but for me to give him space to think. So I did that. He actually called me again the next day and he was the same. Then I didn't talk to him for a couple of days. I got a random text from him stating that he was not coming back to me and that I needed to quit emailing his friends. I haven't emailed anyone. I just don't know where this stuff is coming from. Now he is all worried about coming to get the things he says are his items. He wants everything. I've remained non threatening and non confrontational to him through this whole thing. This is really painful because I don't understand I just want him to come home. He says he still loves me and knows that it shouldn't be this way and says he's sorry for putting me through this. I'm just so confused why it's so hard for him to do the right thing. Why would he walk away from his family for a life of nothing with his mother. I love him so much but he is hurting me so bad. I can't stop crying and I can't eat. I basically can't function. Do I continue to hang on? Will he come around?

Also his attorney has told him that he can divorce me at any time. However, mine has told me that we cannot be divorced until the baby is born. Which is true? Also can I contest our divorce? Do I have to go along with it? I know it's not the right thing and I know it's not what he wants deep down. I think it's all his mother. What do I do?

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Jill