Samsung
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I don't have any sons, thank God. Otherwise, I would too, could count on probably being just a visitor to the grandkids. That's not some bad dream.....that's reality.
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mistake#2
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Reged: 07/19/06
Posts: 3213
Loc: Florida
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[quote]I don't have any sons, thank God. Otherwise, I would too, could count on probably being just a visitor to the grandkids. That's not some bad dream.....that's reality. [/quote]
Alright...so in your own words from another post, TRUCE?
BTW - I STILL think that other poster is an a$$ but will offer a truce there too, lol.
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Samsung
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Well, of course he's an Azz. I was never defending him. A truce is good. Thank you.
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taryn
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Reged: 05/31/07
Posts: 2256
Loc: Hell...but im coming back up, ...
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[quote]I really can't say much else. You promote suicide for certain people. You ignore the facts. The chances of a man getting married, divorced, and being a non-custodial parent, are higher than you think. 90% of Americans get married. The divorce rate is in 50-60% range, and men get custody in my state 6% of the time.
So, if a son gets married, the chances of you becoming a visitor to the kids, just like him, are higher. Using 100 people as an example, 90 get married. At a 55% divorce rate, 50 of the 90 will get divorced, and 3 men will get custody. Although a few will share custody, most will be resigned by the courts, as a visitor. [/quote]
in my case our kids almost nver see their grandparnets on my stbx's side and my stbx is court ordered spend his time wiht the kids at the grandparntens house! so our kids' coud be getting lots of quality time...and the dont.
our kids see my brother and his wife lots more and they live 45 minutes away.
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infinity386
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[quote]
No big loss there...too bad."
I was commenting to that particular poster...not in general to ALL men...due to his previous posts. I'm allowed my opinion and I think he's an a$$. I don't care if anyone agrees with me, I'm comfortable with my own opinion...and FYI, my brother killed himself. Yes, I have sons and know that they aren't biased as the poster I was referring to and it's ridiculous to say that they are going to kill themselves when they don't get custody of their children. What a ridiculous statement. [/quote]
Honestly, I really do not care what you call me. It just shows how petty and trifling you are as a person.
Oh, lets not over exaggerate the facts at hand. When I asked if you had sons, I did not mean that they would literally kill themselves. I honestly do not believe the other poster meant that they would either.
It was more of a general statement. What I can guarantee is that if things do not change.....in a child support/custody/separation situation your sons will be subjected to the same thing most men have been subjected to. Please do not fool yourself to think that you can train/raise kids to deal with such lost. No training on earth can prepare your sons for such a thing. Let me ask you. How can you train your sons to loose their children, then watch as their children are used to torture and torment them, all while having their finances destroyed? I would really like to take a peek at that training plan. First of all loss of custody is not simply a loss. It's subjugation. Subjugation to whom ever looses the fight. If you loose a custody battle and end up with visitation you have very little legal say so in regards to your child. You are just what the title suggest. Not a mother, Not a father but a visitor. The killer is that if you actually choose to fight for joint custody you can definitely count on having your finances destroyed. If you loose you can count on having your wages garnished. If your X is still bitter you can count on them using your child as a pawn to torture and torment you. More than likely they will be bitter after the battle because if not you would never have had to fight for custody in the first place.
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mistake#2
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Reged: 07/19/06
Posts: 3213
Loc: Florida
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[quote]
Honestly, I really do not care what you call me. It just shows how petty and trifling you are as a person.
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If I had accused you of having JBAR as an ex-lover, you might have made the same comment, lol...and to think a few posts back I said BTW, I STILL think this posters an a$$ but will offer up a truce there too, lol. But now I'm trifling...lol...your hilarious and taking yourself WAYY too seriously. Another poster commented "Well, of course he's an Azz. I was never defending him. A truce is good. Thank you"
LOL...get off your moral high horse. Your consistently showing that you have animosity towards women because they didn't stay with the man...regardless of what the situation was (as you assumed a lot and told other posters to honor their wedding vows). You are entitled to your opinion, just as others are entitled to theirs...and I realize that my post was not constructive but consistently yours have been belittling and non-supportive. Buck up camper...Oh and have a great day!
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1227
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Reged: 09/12/07
Posts: 195
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Your brother suicide and you have this view on suicide. A COP OUT? !!! Or just whatever. Or that you can prevent it. COME ON!!!! Not saying your are heartless, but that comment was.
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