I have one question. I am really not happy that the other woman my husband is having an affair with, tells me to get divorce right away. I will feel alot better after that etc...
My husband has been listening to her, so ask me to take an action with my own expense which I am not working right now.
Can I do any sort of legal action toward the other woman?
your HUSBAND made his choice to have the affair. the other woman played a part, yes, but bottom line it the relationship side of things....it's your husband who you should be angry with. HE was/is your partner....NOT the other woman.
sorry....been there done that and im feeling your pain. im sure kat will chime in here to...our lovely stbx's are living with their women. A$$es!