Considering the facts that he met OW on an online sexx site and she got pregnant on their first encounter while both were still married, her character was already pretty apparent, as was my ex's. I was just throwing it out there that maybe your ex had gotten himself into something dangerous and was trying to protect the kids from it.
yet another instance with a married man getting involved with a married woman w/kids and getting pregnant right off the bat. what is it with this??? i see quite a few men on here who sound like great husbands and providers and dads, and look at the men we are describing.
My stbx is "in town" this weekend and wanted to see the children, so they are with him. What is he doing? Packing up the rest of his home, my DD called me and said she wanted to come home cause she is so lonely. My heart just broke for her. It seems since stbx found this new woman he has forgotten them. Doesn't call when he "promises" to, doesn't want to see the kids artwork (what parent doesn't love to see their kids artwork?!) or schoolwork, doesn't want their pictures, nothing. And now the kids are so down about their dad seeing OW's kids and doing more with them than he's ever done with them, and now this is the weekend the news was broken about "daddy and OW" having a baby.
My son asked me to shave his head before he left to his dad's house because "daddy likes me to look like him". Here's a 5 year old trying to impress his dad with clothes and haircuts and such, just to get a little attention. It's just heartbreaking.