my husband is in the military and time after time he hurting me emotionally by beeing with me and always searching for other girls..and also still have something going with his ex girlfriend back home.time after time i caught him talking on the phone with girls for hours..and emailing calling others honey and baby ect.. and he lies to me so many times.and lately he did it again..i cant take it anymore..what should i do? i want a divorce but ive been a house wife..i havent work since i got pregnantand stay home taking care of the baby since then. we only been married for about 3 years. can i get spouse support?or custody and child support?iam so afraid that i cant have custody of my baby..there for i keep hanging on.i dont know where to start or what to do..please help me.
First of all, i'm sorry for what you are going through. It is a very difficult situation to deal with. I myself am going through a complicated divorce process. I know you are feeling very emotionally drained contemplating your options, especially since you are currently a housewife. As for you husband, It's time to let him go despite how much you still care for him and love him. A man who blatantly cheats, looks at other women, or even keeps in contact with past relationships obviously lacks love, or even respect for you. You must think what's best for you and what your future will be if you stay in this relationship. If you want we can share information offline because I am going through some things as well and maybe you can answer some of my questions. Thanks.