Daybreak
Platinum
Reged: 08/04/06
Posts: 318
Loc: OR
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Hello all, just wanted to introduce myself...I know I'll be asking for help and advice from you all. I'm involved in what has been a complete nightmare of a separation, and have finally reached the point where I can actually start looking around me and start building a new life. I look forward to your insight...
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doc40
Platinum
Reged: 05/04/06
Posts: 2839
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welcome to our little world. i hate that we had to meet this way but greetings.
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"To thine ownself be ture"
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Alex63
Platinum
Reged: 06/01/06
Posts: 447
Loc: PHOENIX ARIZONA
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Welcome DayB.....
Let us know how u are doing and how we can help! :)
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sunshine
Platinum
Reged: 04/28/06
Posts: 3078
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Welcome...You have come to the right place....We're here for you!!!!Your post name says it all....Daybreak, the beginging of a new journey and your ready to start......
There are alot of caring people here.....
Edited by sunshine (08/05/06 07:18 PM)
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adrenaline
Platinum
Reged: 03/21/06
Posts: 3892
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Welcome DB to the blunt world I like to call Adrenaline.
Let us know if you have any questions.
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The problem isn't the game; it is that nobody knows the rules.
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hoptownasia
Silver
Reged: 07/27/06
Posts: 52
Loc: kentucky
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Welcome to you DB...I'm new here too but these guys are awesome...love, luck and laughter to you
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Daybreak
Platinum
Reged: 08/04/06
Posts: 318
Loc: OR
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Thanks to all of the welcomes! If there's anyone else out there who is struggling with the whole concept of divorce/separation, I've been submersing myself in a whole bunch of 'self-help' books lately, and can highly recommend a couple: Crazy Time and Thriving Through Crisis.
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tractormom
Silver
Reged: 06/11/07
Posts: 67
Loc: Nassau coutny, NY
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Welcome to the game of divorce, since it does seem to be a game. Reading is great, but don't get to caught up it, as the rules for divorce change on a daily if not hourly basis.
Some suggestions from my corner of the world. Do what you need to to keep your sanity. May I suggest excercise! I find that to be a big help, as well as it makes me look good for my new life.
Second of all; stay focused on your goals. the road seems more bearable when you have a goal in mind.
Third of all; the journey is far worse than the destiniation.
fourth; it's okay to cry, it;s okay to be angry, BUT never let him see you do any of this, it only feeds into what he wants to see.
and fifth; one day this will all be over.
Tractormom
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lettinggo
Platinum
Reged: 06/05/07
Posts: 588
Loc: Michigan
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"it's okay to cry, it;s okay to be angry, BUT never let him see you do any of this, it only feeds into what he wants to see."
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THAT!!! I was just having a weak moment and thought about calling my stbx and of course I would cry...NOW I WON'T CALL...thanks for the reminder!!
Jenn
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Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go
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hs4kids
Gold
Reged: 07/27/07
Posts: 103
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hi im heidi and im new to all this too. my husband walked out and me and our 4 kids,found out he was doing steroids and has a girlfriend....i have a restraining order against hm as he made4 some crazy threats and remarks a few weeks ago...now he is telling me he loves me and if he stopped se4eing the girlfriend would i take him back....i am still madly n love with him but i know i shouldnt b....im lost and any advise would help
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