I've been married 11 years and I've tried not to be jealous but I've always found that my husband speaks to girls. He is very charming and has a great, outgoing personality I guess you could say he is the life of the party. Well all our marriage I've always found out about friends that he has and its not because he's told me its because i've gone thru his phone. When I've questioned him he says there just friends. Well one of his friends got really close to him and I got a call from one of her friends stating that there was more going on. Well I never got to speak to that girl again and my husband promised it was over although he said they were just friends. I always had a gut feeling but I was never able to prove anything even when I spoke to that girl. Well he stopped speaking to that girl but then started texting with another one who was a customer of his, the text had double meanings and when i went through my husband's phone he got mad first of all and then said i was taking it the wrong way. We've gone to counseling and he has been told its wrong but i still know he talks to girls how I know -- I get into his invoices without his knowing and I know its wrong but i feel he's lying and when i ask him i'm right he denies it. My question is am i jumping to conclusion am i worrying over nothing, or making a bigger deal about it than what it is. I feel like this is a never ending story we fight about one friend he stops and then finds another, and of course i find out by going thru his phone of invoices and did i forget to mention i've never met any of them. I just want to know if i'm overreacting
that sounds alot like my marriage. He was always claiming to have "friends". One girl he got close to and then I did too and then all of a sudden it was over, not heard from her since. Then guess what? One of the friends I didn't even know anything about ends up with him. That's right, he left his wife and children for one of his "friends". The internet po@n was another problem of my finding it and him lying about it. I just want to warn you of the things that can happen with the lies and the "friends". I'm sorry you are going through this because I know how you feel. I hope in your case that it isn't this way but that is what happened with me.
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