Just posting an update. For those of you who knew I was going out with my husband Friday night, it went really well. Thanks for the advise. We talked about the now and not when are you moving home. He has been under alot of stress at work so I just listned to hime vent. Before I was to quick to give advise. Sometimes people don't want advise, they want an ear. Even though we only spent about three hours together, it was the best time we have had together in a while. I enjoyed every minute of it. He said the next time we would have to do something else besides going out to eat. This lets me know there is still hope. Meanwhile I will continue to work on me. Really, who wants a broken person?
Fantasic, Im glad the evening went well. Remember the place your husband is in, know that the road you are going down is difficult, and you need to make sure that you are keeping your heart protected. If you havent been there already I would suggest checking out marriagebuilders.com, its a wonderful resource and has tons of people there with vast amounts of experience dealing with what you are going through.
I am happy to continue to help you in any way I can, and I wish you all the best in the world. I hope things continue to go well for you.
Your going to do great and you are going to be fine. Be sure to keep us posted Id love to know how things are going.
Keep your head high and a smile on your face. (fake it till you make it). I have faith in you guys.
-------------------- You must be the change you wish to see - Mahatma Gandhi
Fantastic. I knew you could do it. Let him know you enjoyed the time together and yes, sometimes guys just want an ear to understand and listen to us. We aren't always looking for an answer. Just to know someone cares. I look forward to your next update.
-------------------- Damn it's good to laugh again.