There seems to be no one with much to say about my previous post. It seems all but hopeless now. She called and said her mother had heard all about the WHOLE thing from someone on my side. Said I was to blame for her being disowned. I could not get a word in. she hung up and I don't know what to do... Make the dreaded call or wait.
OMG, I wish I could say something...anything to make this less brutal for you. Did you adopt your son? If you did then you can keep him with you until she gets the help she desperately needs. If not, then they may still let him stay with you since you have been a constant in his life. I wish I knew of more to tell you, I'm so sorry you are in this mess and I wish I could help you. Maybe, they will at least let your son stay with you until she can get help. It couldn't hurt to check into that.
-------------------- What is the future but a mirrored image of the past? Only we can make it better or worse!
Step-parents have absolutely NO RIGHTS as far as I know. An attorney here in OK told me that before. I wanted to adopt him and he wanted it too - it was always the damn money. Same thing now - until I get my disability next month I dont have the means to support him - in fact, what we were getting was because I am disabled and we were together. Now all that is in the air... This is the most @%$!#% up life - every time I hit bottom I think that I hape I NEVER see that kind of crap again. But the fact is Ive hit this bottomless bottom more times than I remember. GOD Help me I am so beyond a breakdown I dont know up from down anymore. Thanks for your reply though. Please pray for us everybody.
I will pray for you dear. I hope that things start to look better for you in the future. I'm sooo sorry you are having to deal with this. I just wish there was something I could do or say to help. I don't know the laws very well at all. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers though.
-------------------- What is the future but a mirrored image of the past? Only we can make it better or worse!