aripka
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Can you really sue for abandonment?
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theanswerguy
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For divorce ? That depends on where you live .
-------------------- Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov
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aripka
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I live in Ohio. My husband left me and, I believe, we're getting a disillusionment. Whatever he wants he's paying for it. It might be a divorce or a disillusionment. I don't really know.
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theanswerguy
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In Ohio dissolution and divorce are the same thing .
Abandonment requires wilfull absence of at least one year .
-------------------- Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov
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aripka
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I do believe they're different. I know someone who's been through both.
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gracie lou
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Just this past week, paid a consulttion fee of $250 to the legendary meanest female divorce attorney in our tri-counties. My main question . . . can my daughter and I leave the house until the divorce would be final. Her response - NO, if you do it's abandonment and you will not be entitled to ANY assets. Was she high or what?
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movingon2
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Sounds like it…I understand it can come into play when there are custody issues, but it should not have a bearing on division of assets.
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Scared in SF
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I have to agree- in my hubby's first marriage she left with the kids after filing for divorce and rented a house. They considered it abandonment and he used it as leverage in the alimony payments. Basically- she wouldnt move back so she had 5 years of payments knocked off!!! that was 100's of 1000's of bucks she lost, but her pride was more important (and probably her sanity!)
As far as the assets- everything was even-stevens, from what he told me.
Now that I am in the "potential divorce seat", I am afraid to leave!!! I dont want to go on business travel bcs I am afraid he throw my stuff away and then "swear" I moved out!
-------------------- I just wanted to love and be loved
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