Wrongly Accused
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Reged: 03/27/08
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OK so the STBX has accused me of abuse, i actually got arrested for it. The only thing that i did was try to calm her down when she was hysterical and trying to leave with my child. So anyway, prosecuting atty has offered a deal. 1-2 years probation w a suspended sentence. I don't like this for several reasons. First, I'M INNOCENT! I do not like the idea of admitting guilt when all i was trying to do was protect my kid. Second, STBX has already accused me of being abusive during the marriage, being a child abuser, being a child molester, being gay and cheating on her w men. All of which are false, and i can prove most of it. I don't want to let her have anything. Her and her mom are crazy and they are trying everything under the sun to ruin my name and my life. I cannot give them even the smallest victory. Third, they are evil enough to actually try and get me in trouble for something, i wouldn't put anything past them. I think i can win this case. The problem is, it is going to cost me A LOT more money to fight this. It could also cost me my promotion that i already have, or could cost me my job. I would like some advice and opinions, right now i'm leaning towards fighting to the death...
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stoltz
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Find a local Mens/Fathers Support group ***TODAY*** in order to get access to vital resources you'll need (including a good attorney). As you have already found out, since you are a man, the law is NOT on your side. Just be warned that this will be a tough uphill climb and no matter what resources you put into it there is still a chance you won't win. Thank the feminist groups for seeing to that, using half-truths and out-right lies.
Your STBX sounds like the b*tch from hell, which can sometimes work in your advantage, *IF* she goes a bit overboard with her antics. Again, expect a VERY tough battle with a LOT more accusations flying to which you'll find you are guilty until proven innocent - regardless of how you think it should be in the USA today. If you think the past allegations are crazy, you haven't seen anything yet from this woman. Expect for the worst - the ABSOLUTE worst - and pray for the best.
And, since you have kids, the uphill battle will probably get exponentially harder.
Edit: The main thing to do is to NOT go overboard with your emotions as much as it pains you. She WILL use any outburst, argument, discussion as fodder for her case. If you HAVE to talk to her do so with an unbiased witness, if possible. And by all means document *EVERYTHING*.
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Wrongly Accused
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Reged: 03/27/08
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Well i have a great lawyer, but he is pricy. I have already taken a polygraph for the molestion charges and passed with flying colors. She has gone off the deep end and her mother is pulling all the strings. I have a few aces up my sleeve still, she is mentally unstable, tried to kill herself after we split up, and she is irrational and using drugs now...i'm just waiting for a big screw up...
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