hayduke
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Reged: 04/28/08
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My ex and I split back in August of 2006. Our divorce was final in February of 2007.
We were married for 7 yrs, had no children, and both worked.
We owned a home together, which I bought her out of the equity. She retained ownership of her car (paid). We had no debt that we split.
She quit her job and then requested spousal support. Through negotiation I agreed to pay the sum she requested, as the court mediator indicated the judge was likely to award her more. I agreed to pay $300 a month for 3.5 yrs.
She has since moved out of the area, is living with her current boyfriend. I ahve paid the spousal support for 1 year. Given the fact that she left the relationship with no debt, a sizable settlement sum, and no other financial obligations...the payment of this $300 spousal support seems petty and trivial.
What ramifications might I face if I just opt to not pay it anymore?
Is there a way I can release myself from this without opening myself up to anything further?
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allthumbs
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Reged: 07/12/07
Posts: 346
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Sounds similar to my experience. Two things are strikes against her. One, she quit her job and two, she is co habitating with another. These are grounds for modification, IMO. If you just stop paying, she could file a contempt of court motion and the judge could find you in contempt. To handle it properly, file a motion for modification based on CA. Family Code 4320: (a) The extent to which the earning capacity of each party is sufficient to maintain the standard of living established during the marriage, taking into account all of the following: (1) The marketable skills of the supported party; the job market for those skills; the time and expenses required for the supported party to acquire the appropriate education or training to develop those skills; and the possible need for retraining or education to acquire other, more marketable skills or employment. (d) The needs of each party based on the standard of living established during the marriage. (l) The goal that the supported party shall be self-supporting within a reasonable period of time. Except in the case of a marriage of long duration as described in Section 4336, a "reasonable period of time" for purposes of this section generally shall be one-half the length of the marriage. However, nothing in this section is intended to limit the court's discretion to order support for a greater or lesser length of time, based on any of the other factors listed in this section, Section 4336, and the circumstances of the parties. 4322. In an original or modification proceeding, where there are no children, and a party has or acquires a separate estate, including income from employment, sufficient for the party's proper support, no support shall be ordered or continued against the other party 4323. (a) (1) Except as otherwise agreed to by the parties in writing, there is a rebuttable presumption, affecting the burden of proof, of decreased need for spousal support if the supported party is cohabiting with a person of the opposite sex. Upon a determination that circumstances have changed, the court may modify or terminate the spousal support as provided for in Chapter 6 (commencing with Section 3650) of Part 1. (2) Holding oneself out to be the husband or wife of the person with whom one is cohabiting is not necessary to constitute cohabitation as the term is used in this subdivision. (b) The income of a supporting spouse's subsequent spouse or nonmarital partner shall not be considered when determining or modifying spousal support. (c) Nothing in this section precludes later modification or termination of spousal support on proof of change of circumstances.
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