Dad-O-three
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Reged: 08/03/07
Posts: 1
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Hello,
I was informed by my wife of nine years last Saturday that she isn't happy in our marriage. She requested that I move out.
After a great deal of discussion I determined that doing so would allow us all to move on as smoothly as possible.
(we have 3 kids, 5,7, & 8)
I moved out on Sunday. I have a couple of friends who have been incredibly helpful in terms of helping me get through this. The wife and I are both
being incredibly understanding as to the best way to facilitate the change with minimul impact on the kids... Lots of visits, lots of phone calls...
Basically, I just wanted to introduce myself and say hello....
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theanswerguy
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Reged: 04/12/07
Posts: 1993
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I pray that things go smoothly for you , experience makes me doubt that it will . Good luck !
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Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right. Isaac Asimov
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Sarah1014
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Reged: 04/12/07
Posts: 2094
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If you use lawyers...
...let the fighting begin.
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RainOnMe
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Reged: 03/28/08
Posts: 12
Loc: Oklahoma
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I am new here also and am just starting the divorce journey and it is painful-weird doesn't even begin to describe the pain-I don't even recognize myself anymore.
My stbx and I have been married for 20 years and we have two teenage daughters. It seemed that my stbx was going to try to take the high road but I think I am getting screwed so I guess it will be a very painful battle after all since I can't trust the sob.
Happiness comes and goes whatever happened to commitments??
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sad2mad2glad
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Reged: 10/02/07
Posts: 13
Loc: Oklahoma
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My church, my work, my friends and my family have become essential to me throughout my ordeal. Before my marriage troubles started 2 years ago I took all those things for granted. No more.
It has also helped me to know that many others have gone through this all consuming nightmare of divorce and been able to make a good, if not better, life for themselves afterwards.
This forum is helpful. I also reccomend a book called "Crazy Time" about the rollercoaster of peoples actions and feelings in divorce.
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