mfergel
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I hear you smo. I feel like I've been a bit superficial as well, but I want to lust for my mate as well as love them. I will admit though that since the separation, I see different qualities in different women and I do find myself attracted to women that I may not have before. Like the date I had last Tuesday. The old me might have had second thoughts about it, but in all honesty, when I saw her for the first time, there was something about her personality that really popped. I feel like I have a more open mind about things now.........but trust me, hot sex will still be a requirement. The sex in my marriage was a bit boring.
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ATVILLAS
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If you really put "hot sex" as one of your priorities anywhere near the top of the list, you might be sadly dissapointed as far as a long term relation goes. I really think good sex is a benefit of a really good relationship.
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mfergel
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Well, when I say hot sex, I guess I'm more interested in someone that is comfortable with herself and her body. I know everyone always wishes they had smaller love handles, etc. I just don't want anyone that feels inhibited to talk about what they like, etc. I just don't feel like a couple should be ashamed to talk about sex with each other. To me, that's what winds up turning into hot sex.
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movingon2
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I recommend a FWB situation.
Seriously, it was really difficult for me to have sex with someone else-- I felt SO much guilt, mostly about still being married.
The FWB thing was great because I didn't have the hassle of a relationship. And after the first time, it was all good.
What is a FWB situation?
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newlife07
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Reged: 05/05/08
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Loc: Virginia
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I think it is--Friend with benefits...
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movingon2
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Thanks...little naïve, I've been tucked away too long
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newlife07
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it's ok-I was too-just getting back out there myself...
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ATVILLAS
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Well, when I say hot sex, I guess I'm more interested in someone that is comfortable with herself and her body. I know everyone always wishes they had smaller love handles, etc. I just don't want anyone that feels inhibited to talk about what they like, etc. I just don't feel like a couple should be ashamed to talk about sex with each other. To me, that's what winds up turning into hot sex.
Well that certainly makes sense and I agree. Still isn't the top of the list though and if the connection does happen I am sure it would be a natural follow through.
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