mbrown3
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Reged: 02/20/07
Posts: 271
Loc: Lake Norman NC
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I'm at the point now where i'm beyond the "rebound" phase and have been dating for several months now. but this past week was the first time i'd been used for sex. I went out with the guy 2x's and then got drunk and had a lapse in judgement. he kept telling me how he was "just a great guy" which is obvious BS not to mention he also said he was "huge" which turned out to not be true either!
but he "hit it and quit it" i'm sooo annoyed and pissed but i'm trying not to go off on him and just leave gracefully but its soooo hard! why do Some men think this is ok?
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germangirl631
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At the time, you thought it was OK, too. In these days, you can't be too careful. Think STDs, crazy people. Only knowing a guy for 2 dates and then sleeping with them well, that sounds like just mutual sex. Not a real relationship. So, I'm not sure how you can feel used. Try not to drink so much on your dates and you'll keep your head clear to protect yourself. I'm not trying to sound mean, just calling the cards as I see them.
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Beat-Down
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Reged: 08/20/07
Posts: 223
Loc: Texas
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[i'm sooo annoyed and pissed but i'm trying not to go off on him and just leave gracefully but its soooo hard! why do Some men think this is ok?]
I am not sure what he did wrong. Has he stopped talking to you now?
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Motor-Head
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Reged: 02/07/08
Posts: 700
Loc: 10,000 RPM
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"hit it and quit it"
LOL Plenty around here that can do better then that LOL
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cantbelieveit02
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Reged: 01/01/08
Posts: 62
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My x did that to me it just took 17 years and it left a lifetime scar. I know you are annoyed but I'll bet it didn't hurt that bad. Live and learn. Oh and by the way, if a guy talks about his size he is very small and you can take that to the bank!
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mbrown3
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Reged: 02/20/07
Posts: 271
Loc: Lake Norman NC
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yah, he stopped calling, and answering my calls. before i slept with him he called me several times a day and now its been 4 days.
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cantbelieveit02
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Reged: 01/01/08
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You know he is a jerk. Be thankful that it didn't go any further.
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taryn
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Reged: 05/31/07
Posts: 2509
Loc: standing on the mountaintop! :...
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gotta hate that!
chalk it up there with a guy who's an a$$ and move on.
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happytobdivorced
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Reged: 03/15/07
Posts: 1128
Loc: Hell, USA
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If he does call you again-ignore him. You know what he is made of now. He might try to BS you and you may fall for his excuses. Show him what YOU are made of!
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Message for my ex "I think you know by now, I'm not the person I used to be"
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happy2bme
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Reged: 03/28/08
Posts: 219
Loc: Phoenix, AZ
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oh suckage, that totally sucks.
I got used this past summer-- I was "dating" this guy, I thought he was totally great & I thought we clicked... one day he just stopped calling and literally disappeared! I called him and emailed him to leave him a message, just to make sure he was ok and to tell him that if it was something I had said or done that caused him to stop coming around I wished he'd had the decency to at least tell me... and I heard NOTHING from him again.
Owell, his loss, right?
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No man is happy who does not think himself so. ~Marcus Aurelius Antoninus
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