cantbelieveit02
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Reged: 01/01/08
Posts: 62
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You know men can be just as shallow as women. Gender really makes no difference. Its how we are brought up I think. If I am ever able to trust another person ( and I hope I can ) I will look into their background like a employer would. But then again maybe I would misout on something good. I don't know?
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picasso
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Reged: 09/16/07
Posts: 1844
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My x did that to me it just took 17 years and it left a lifetime scar. I know you are annoyed but I'll bet it didn't hurt that bad. Live and learn. Oh and by the way, if a guy talks about his size he is very small and you can take that to the bank!
Mine's so small that one time I got drunk and had to pee...so I went into the bathroom, grabbed my left thumb with my right hand and pissed in my pants.
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ljlost
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Reged: 09/30/06
Posts: 5382
Loc: HELL
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Yeah. I know what you mean. And it has happened to me in the past. You just have to move on and forget about it. Its all you can do. As far as him saying what a great guy he is.............I can relate to that too. Sometimes people just flat out tell lies girl!! I had it happen where a guy lied about everything from his profession all the way to all the crap about his ex gf. It was all a bunch of lies that he never admitted to but I ended up finding out otherwise. MANY men think this way. Not all of them do though. You'll get through this. You really will,
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ljlost
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Reged: 09/30/06
Posts: 5382
Loc: HELL
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And hey, mbrown, remember this too: just remember when someone annoys you, it takes 42 muscles in your face to frown.............
But only 4 muscles to extend your arm and bi tch slap that mother fu cker upside the head!
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mfergel
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Reged: 02/11/08
Posts: 1468
Loc: Richmond, VA
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Wish someone would use me. I'd let them.
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ljlost
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Loc: HELL
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mfergel, You do NOT mean that, so dont say it. Its really not a good feeling to be left feeling dirty and used. Maybe you just need someone to talk to!
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mfergel
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Reged: 02/11/08
Posts: 1468
Loc: Richmond, VA
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But I do mean it. At least then I could say someone found me interesting enought to take advantage of.
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ljlost
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Reged: 09/30/06
Posts: 5382
Loc: HELL
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NO...................you DONT mean it. Wouldnt you rather have someone find you interesting enough to be your friend and remain a good friend than someone to find you interesting enough to have sex with??? I would. Even though both would have been nice. lol
Seriously....it does not feel good to be used. Been there and dont plan on ever going there again.
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Beat-Down
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Reged: 08/20/07
Posts: 223
Loc: Texas
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Ok I didn't realize that he wasn't returning your calls now. I understand things better now. Maybe the guy embarrassed himself?????
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mbrown3
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Reged: 02/20/07
Posts: 271
Loc: Lake Norman NC
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i never thought of that. but the way he talked his size up and then only lasted a minute....he probably is embarrassed! i like that excuse and i'm going to hang on to it, THANKS!
-------------------- God Gave Us Mountains So That We Could Learn How To Climb!
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