mistake#2
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I just wanted to state that I personally don't know of any men that are not interested in sex. There are a few I know of that are open in regards to not functioning the same as they had when they were 18...and they are helped with new pharmaceutical technology.
Shut, part of the problem with both my ex-husbands wasn't a lack of interest...they couldn't keep it in their pants!
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Samsung
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I mentioned 2 things. One, becoming a visitor against their will, and second, having to pay for it.
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jbar
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Fear is on both sides of divorce problem!!
You seem to choose money as the fear factor, interesting.
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Money tends to be the major fear factor on the side of the primary wage earner. I wonder what "fear", then, is on the side of the other person. Could it be fear of not getting that new two-million dollar home? Fear of not getting to have her daughter go to Radford? Fear of the man dieing after spending all of his money, and having no life insurance?
Surely it couldn't be fear that he will divorce her, as no man wants to voluntarily pay this much "severance" pay!
Edited by jbar (05/14/08 01:16 AM)
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malone
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[quote] Yes, not the best retort, so I'll apologize for the insinuation. However, I do wish people would look at this issue at the 10,000ft level and not the 1ft level...
So why are men becoming disinterested in something that historically has been revered by them?
Is it the water? Is it higher stress at work? Is it technological pressures? Or, perhaps, is it an increase stress in their personal lives due to their partner in some way. And, if so, in what way(s)?
I'm definitely all ears. [/quote]
You will never find the answer to your question Stolz, for the simple reason that you don't genuinely consider any point of view that you disagree with, especially if it involves something positive about women.
The one ft high view was yours when you started this thread. If you wanted a truly high level intellectual debate, you should also have questioned why some women are dissatisfied with sex to the supposed detriment of men. You should welcome opinions that differ to yours as a process of discovery but you don't.
The only thing I've heard you do thus far is belittle opinions that challenge yours, while blaming women for everything from a man's lack of interest in lovemaking, for lost money in divorce and even impotence.
That makes this thread look like some kind of sad conspiracy theory against women. Good luck with it.
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jbar
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You will never find the answer to your question Stolz, for the simple reason that you don't genuinely consider any point of view that you disagree with, especially if it involves something positive about women
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Yes, there are positive things about women, particularly when they live in countries --or under laws--which do not relentlessy pander to their greed or natural, female, prideful desire to control their husbands. Unfortunately there is no place in the U.S. or the West generally where this situation exists, except perhaps in Latin countries.
Instead, what we have in this country, is a brainwashing process which begins to condition the female beginning almost at birth, to see herself and her own self-respect, in terms of how much her husband makes, how big a house he will buy for her, how nice a car, how big a diamond, ad nauseum. Add the effect all of this has on her behaviour to the relentless further brainwashing of feminism --convincing her of all of her "rights" to divorce her husband anytime she wishes-- and get virtually everything he has and lifetime spousal support and, no, it becomes impossible for there to be much positive about women in this country.
Given the above, is it any wonder that a man who is trapped in a dangerous situation like this, with his wife and her lawyers--or potential lawyers--in control of his life, begins to think of the female organ as not something which is positive, not the source of new life, not the wellspring of his otherwise natural desire to accomplish and create things in this life but, rather, exactly the opposite of these things. Can it then be any further wonder that many such men find themselves, subconsciosly, equating this portion of the female anatomy not to something desireable, not something attractive and not anything pleasurable but, rather, something which may, metaphorically, ultimately destroy his manhood and his very maleness itself, as if it contained a miniature Guillotin?!
Edited by jbar (05/14/08 08:28 AM)
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malone
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That's a really gross post. Do you write that stuff for shock value or do you really think it?
And if you do really think it, do you go to counselling?
You have such warped views of women that one wonders what happened to you. I can't believe it was just the issue over splitting the money with your wife. You've got issues with women that go way beyond that. You really need to stop and have a big think about where you're going with your life. Definitely not a good place, that's for sure.
I am one of the few women for whom the boot was on the other foot. My husband will soon walk away with 50% of everything I earned, built and saved. I walk away with nothing of his. The only thing slowing him down is that he's trying to figure out how to get a bit more.
But I'm not writing posts about all that stuff you never stop writing about. I'm getting back on with my life. I'm not wallowing in the thought of all the money I lost. And I don't think the laws are all that much different anywhere else.
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malone
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[quote] The x could lay there completely nood, but the emotion, the passion, all the necessary DRIVE and DESIRE had vanished. [/quote]
That just means Hardknox, that the chemistry you once had with your X had been snuffed out. And that can happen. It's life itself.
That does not mean that the candle itself was snuffed out and melted down. (I'm really sorry, I was just trying to think of a polite and ladylike way to put it. So candle it will have to be.)
This thread blames women as the reason for all 'candle meltdowns'. There are plenty of other reasons for that.
Physical health ones, mental health ones, substance abuse ones etc. They haven't even been mentioned. Just women.
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Samsung
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Jeepers Jbar....I feel for you....you seem to be downright damaged....I highly doubt many folks view the female anatomy from the contempt you do....because of the laws the way they are. Get some help, my friend.
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jbar
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Jeepers Jbar....I feel for you....you seem to be downright damaged....I highly doubt many folks view the female anatomy from the contempt you do....because of the laws the way they are. Get some help, my friend
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And not only is the Guillotine sooner or later activated, but it contains tiny grappling hooks, which quickly attach themselves to your entire scrotum and drag it into the mouth of the guillotine as well, so that by the time it is through with you, you have left no penis, no gonads, not even a "pee tube" but only a flap of skin, which ultimately heals in the shape of a vagina. You have now been fully turned into a eunuch!
Edited by jbar (05/14/08 09:20 AM)
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HardKnox
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[quote] And not only is the Guillotine sooner or later activated, but it contains tiny grappling hooks, which quickly attach themselves to your entire scrotum and drag it into the mouth of the guillotine as well, so that by the time it is through with you, you have left no penis, no gonads, not even a "pee tube" but only a flap of skin, which ultimately heals in the shape of a vagina. [/quote]
GAH.
Well if that don't kill off any fleeting thoughts of some day taking the skin-boat to tuna-town nothin' will.
GAH.
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