[quote]What will I lose...you never answered my question about why you were asking about life insurance. Do you have children together? I'd be happy to give you info on her eligibility and how it works... [/quote]
i dont know about how legit this site is but here is what i found
http://www.divorcedirtytricks.com/alimony.htm
If you are to be paying alimony, you can keep life insurance on your ex so that you can recoup any alimony payments you have made over the years upon their death. This also works in the opposite method as well, if you are receiving alimony, having life insurance on the ex that pays you alimony will allow you to replace the money that they would have paid you if they happen to die. ----------------- so it sounds somewhat legal but i dont know if it is smart to do or not
oh no kids here either
-------------------- call me WWIL...PA resident 39 year old , married 11 years, together 12...splitting in 13th year.
If she is not willing to make an attempt at a joyous and prodcutive (within her limitations) life, then she has broken part of the vows she made to you. [/quote]
last night she brought up about vows again. I said well if i was such a bad hubby, closing you out of my feelings, being depressed, not encouraging you, being mean etc...why do you want to stay. She said because of her vow in good times and in bad. NOw i wasnt smart enough at the time to say what if i started drinking and hitting you would you stay? but i wondered what she would say now.
She did say that i am condemning her to a bad life (back with her family and says no one will want her in a wheelchair) but i dont think that is a reason to stay but couldnt tell her that because i think its mean.
i did say her depression and unwillingness to try to get better is what got me and even if i was totally unsupportive, she should wanna get better for herself! So yes i feel guilty for condemning her to a sucky life but is that guilt a reason to stay? my therapy dude says no and so do i. She says she will miss me and knows when she leaves she will never see me again and that really bugs her. She said she just wants to make sure i'm happy after she leaves.
-------------------- call me WWIL...PA resident 39 year old , married 11 years, together 12...splitting in 13th year.
geez she's doing a good job lately at treating me well and acting nice. Making me feel real bad about sentencing her to her life of doom. Makes the shots about living in a crappy mobile home and she will have nothing since has to leave most stuff here. Well is it my fault she cant take more even if it was hers?
-------------------- call me WWIL...PA resident 39 year old , married 11 years, together 12...splitting in 13th year.
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