tiredofnagging
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YADA YADA YADA
It must be nice to have that much time to dissect my post. You are a classic. But you just can't seem to put this away, can ya?????
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tiredofnagging
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Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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I know quite a bit about adoption as I have two family members that are adopted. That leap must have hurt.
Are they your children? Because if they're not you're speaking third party. So realistically you don't know sh!t. Only adoptive parents truly know what the experience is truly like. So again you cackle your way to where your nose don't belong.
It's better to keep your mouth shut and have people think you're a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.
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Jada
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It's better to keep your mouth shut and have people think you're a fool than to speak and remove all doubt. [/quote]
So, when are you going to start taking your own advice?
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tiredofnagging
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Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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What are you, the house conscience?
GET A LIFE. GO AWAY. BACK INTO YOUR CAVE. GO TORTURE A MAN.
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mrpat
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Loc: Michigan
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I know I might have said I'm not going to sit in judgment anymore..............But come on man. You stated that you wanted to make the wife look unfit and you made the implied comment about the money spent for adoption. You do have a opportunity to have your daughter 50% of the time. Just don't let her see you acting like such a dik, or she might not want to see you when she's older.
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People don't care how much you know.........until they know how much you care.
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tiredofnagging
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Loc: Las Vegas, NV USA
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How about nobody sitting in judgement.......we're all here over issues. Nobody is better than anyone else, even the cacklers.
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cubsfan
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Dude, if you even want a chance of getting some constructive advice on this site, learn to seperate the wheat from the chaff.
While I certainly don't agree with what everyone on this site says, I have also gotten some really good advice because I don't make each disagreement a pissing match. My Granddad used to tell me that the only thing that happened in a pissing match is that you got your pant legs wet.
Don't go down that road man. There are a lot of good people on here that are willing to share their experience, strength and hope. But if you're willing to engage in a pissing contest with each person that gives a dissenting opinion, people won't even bother to respond.
I hope you find what you are looking for in the divorce process. If Mom is a bad mother, present the evidence as a truthful fact. Don't make stuff up, it will come back to haunt you some day with your daughter.
My SO's ex has told his daughter all kinds of bad things about the SO & I. As she has gotten a little older and seen with her own eyes what is really going on, she is beginning to question the veracity of what her Daddy is telling her, and losing respect for him each time he does.
And remember, whether she is a bad Mom or not, she is still MOM and always will be.
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tiredofnagging
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Ironically I'm not making up stuff. She shrieks at our daughter all the time. She has now admitted she has anger mgmt problems. I told her if she doesn't get help (professional, meds, etc...) I will divorce her and if she continues to browbeat the both of us, I will attempt to take her.
Memo to the critics.....What do I tell her when she asks me why mommy always yells at her????
Constructive and reponsive, non judgemental conversation is good, accusations are not. A pissing war I don't want, however I back down from no one.
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tiredofnagging
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Didn't think the "experts" would have anything constructive to say, can't say I'm not surprised....
Problem is, it seems to be the husbands fault ad nauseum, that the female is capable of doing wrong. So sad. Well, I'm married to the b!tch on wheels and her specialty is accusing me of not taking care of things while I'm unable to work. (I have a ruptured disc from an auto accident and in constant pain, I usually wake up with no feeling in my hand)
Sadly a conversation that will never take place:
Wife: "How was your day? Does your neck hurt today? Is there anything I can do to help?"
Me: "Thank you for asking. I could sure use a neckrub"
I always ask her how her day was and I listen to her answer. She is an angry woman who can't deal with the imperfections of life. I'm doing the best I can to run the house, pay bills, shop, laundry, take our daughter to and from school, and keep the house clean. AND look for work I CAN DO. But nothing seems to be enough. Criticism is expected and punctual.
That is what I like to refer to as browbeating. And she does shriek at our daughter. Again so much that she asks me why.......
I know I'm gonna blow one day soon.
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EZmark
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Loc: Florida
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Get medical docs in order. do not work, make 0$. get atty. advice. You are in a position to file and make hersupports you. Of course she will be a complete deadbeat as the MAJORITY of women ordered to pay support are, but you will not have to support her lazy butt and if you recover can have your kid and your income. Include her "browbeating" and failure to care for you as arguements for special share in any equity in lieu of alimony. Get her an employment eval and extrapolat her potential until she's 67 to see how much she owes you if ordered to become her slave, offer to setttle for 10% off. If you can stay home and care for the kids but not work that's even better, you'll get CS & the kid. With an MRI and that injury could be just what the doctor ordered. Now is the time to wallow, you can get better later.
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