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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: HardKnox]
      #204276 - 05/13/08 01:40 PM (68.41.4.141)
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Me thinks it might be me Knox.

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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: mrpat]
      #204278 - 05/13/08 01:42 PM (65.165.5.70)
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[quote] Me thinks it might be me Knox. [/quote]

YEAH WELL HEY LIGHTEN UP THERE DOOD.

Mfergel has every right to go into the tank if he so chooses.

I did.


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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: mfergel]
      #204280 - 05/13/08 01:45 PM (75.149.88.225)
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"I hate to be one of those parents that drops off their kid, disappears and then comes back a few hours later to pick her up."


I can tell you never took your daughter to a birthday party or they are a hell of a lot different on the east coast.

As a parent that has taken my kids to many parties this is the norm and it gives the parents some time to so something on there own while the child enjoys the party.

When you have a party do you want every dam parent setting around watching the birthday party. I know I sure as hell don’t. I don’t expect parents to stay at the parties I have thrown for my kids. I am happy to take the kids for 2-3 hours while they go get some stuff done. They come back and kids get to tell them what a great time they had.

If the P want to stay i have no problem with it but i rarly have had that. Or they leave after we start the party Thank god as it gets crazy when we start smashing the shit out of the pinyata because it does get crazy LOL


Damm near an insult to suggest your bad parent for dropping the kids off at a birthday party
Your so right when you say you have not been involved with you daughter in the past and it shows with post like this.


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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: HardKnox]
      #204284 - 05/13/08 01:50 PM (68.41.4.141)
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Yeah I agree...........but maybe someone (me) can cause this individual to start using his brain and God given abilities to stay out of the fuckin tank...............Sir.

I've been there doing that and if he dosen't have to sink that low cool.


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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: Motor-Head]
      #204285 - 05/13/08 01:50 PM (171.159.192.10)
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No, we've thrown plenty of parties for our daughter in the past. The vast majority of the parents always stay. Usually only one or two that drop off the child and bail, and more often than not, it seems like it's always the one child that gets out of hand. We've taken our daughter to parties in the past and again, the vast majority of the parents stay.

I'm not saying it's about being a bad parent or anything. But more often than not, these parents that leave make the assumption that it's ok. Too me, they should ask first if it is alright to leave their child unattended while they leave to do something else. We've had parents that show up, leave the child and say we'll be back in two hours. See you later. That's rude.

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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: HardKnox]
      #204286 - 05/13/08 01:50 PM (207.172.137.28)
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was that an ice cream tank???

No but seriously I know I don't post much but this place is for support. In the height of my divorce I didn't know which end was up and just seeing replies helped like I can't even express. This process does play tricks on you and fills you with self doubt.

So I guess if you don't like the post or the poster don't respond, but lend a hand and be a friend.

AND PUT DOWN THAT SPOON KNOX!!!!!!!

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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: mrpat]
      #204287 - 05/13/08 01:52 PM (171.159.192.10)
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[quote]Yeah I agree...........but maybe someone (me) can cause this individual to start using his brain and God given abilities to stay out of the fuckin tank...............Sir.

I've been there doing that and if he dosen't have to sink that low cool. [/quote]

What's the tank filled with? Is it jello? Are there girls in bikinis involved? Pudding would be fun. Not thirsty enough for a tank of liquor though.

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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: LeeJ]
      #204288 - 05/13/08 01:54 PM (75.185.132.243)
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take her or not.

not a big deal.

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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: LeeJ]
      #204291 - 05/13/08 01:54 PM (66.180.116.13)
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Just as there is never a dumb question there is never to many unless it is just the same thing over and over.

Go and have a good time. Your daughter will think it's great. I never talk a lot anyway at parties.

Hope your daughter liked the puppy.


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Re: do I take daughter to her friends birthday party? [Re: mfergel]
      #204292 - 05/13/08 01:55 PM (68.41.4.141)
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It's the tank where you lose everthing but the kids. You might be headed there and I trying to push you elsewhere for your own good.

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