Motor-Head
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Reged: 02/07/08
Posts: 689
Loc: 10,000 RPM
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ROTFLMAO
Ok i want to go were you did LOL
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mrpat
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Posts: 2728
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Mfergel your a nice enough guy, the point is if we don't get you to trust you own decision making process what good are we. You need to learn to trust in yourself again. It's the biggest hurdle we face in divorce. You must trust in yourself to move forward and begin to understand the life that lies ahead. A person who can't think on any level for themselves is doomed to repeat his mistakes in life.
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HardKnox
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Reged: 06/13/07
Posts: 2760
Loc: Wisconsin
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[quote] Ok i want to go were you did LOL [/quote]
Fornino.
Brooklyn, New York.
http://www.freewilliamsburg.com/restaurants/archives/2005/03/fornino_1.html
Let's load up Mr. Pat and mfergel and go have us some pie.
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mfergel
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Reged: 02/11/08
Posts: 1467
Loc: Richmond, VA
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[quote]Mfergel your a nice enough guy, the point is if we don't get you to trust you own decision making process what good are we. You need to learn to trust in yourself again. It's the biggest hurdle we face in divorce. You must trust in yourself to move forward and begin to understand the life that lies ahead. A person who can't think on any level for themselves is doomed to repeat his mistakes in life. [/quote]
You may be right. Maybe I feel like I've made so many bad decisions in the past that lead up to this event that I'm going to screw up and lose whatever I have left that remains.
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Damn it's good to laugh again.
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HardKnox
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Loc: Wisconsin
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[quote] You may be right. Maybe I feel like I've made so many bad decisions in the past that lead up to this event that I'm going to screw up and lose whatever I have left that remains. [/quote]
Ach. You've got to flush crap like that right outta your brain. Grab yourself by the sack and drag yourself outta this. Listen.....
Listen to Mr. Pat and gigi for good, solid, sound advice as to how to not ruin the rest of your life. They saved me.
Listen to me if you need a good laugh and ALSO the realization that I was every bit as much of a mess as you are now.
Listen to Motor-Head if.....if.....you wanna go out for pizza or somethin'.
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tookway2much
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Reged: 03/31/08
Posts: 627
Loc: Going toward the light!
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Ferg, Honey I adore you but you have to grow up and stop crying over every little Boo Boo. Your going to do what you want anyway. If you listen to the advice you seek so often, you could have seen Jason coming before it hit you in the face. Plan a different fun day for her, or go to the party. Why does everything have to be negative drama with you?
Mrpat! You hit it on the nail/
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I don't worry about the people in my past. There is a reason they are not in my future.
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taryn
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Reged: 05/31/07
Posts: 2460
Loc: standing on the mountaintop! :...
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wait!
if there's free food...and it's GOOD food go!
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taryn.
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mrpat
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Posts: 2728
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Mferg I'm not telling you not to post. I'm looking for a spark of life in you. Sometimes it only comes from confrontation. However you need to understand life can get worse you still have much more to lose if you choose to. The decision is yours and yours alone.
P.S. we gotta get you a nickname.
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happytobdivorced
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Reged: 03/15/07
Posts: 1125
Loc: Hell, USA
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You will be okay. You need to enter the next phase of this thing we call D-I-V-O-R-C-E. Gain some strength. Trust yourself. Take control over YOUR life. Do what you want with it. Stop worrying about what you should do-do what ever the hell you want to do.
Choice 1-okay so you suck it up and take her. Put a big smile on your face, be polite and don't talk about the divorce while you are there.
Choice 2-Or just drop her off-make nice with the parents, say thank you, leave your cell number and show back up on time.
Choice 3-you don't like these people, don't go. Why put yourself throught this bullsh*t.
Only you know what is best for YOU.
Me personally-if I was in this situation I would not go.
I would ask my son if he wanted to go. If he did then I would tell my ex to take him and drop him back off after they were finished. I chose the NO BULLSH*T route. Going to the party and staying there with people you don't care for-is just going to make you feel worse.
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Message for my ex "I think you know by now, I'm not the person I used to be"
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mrpat
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NO BULLSH*T route..............ROCKS!
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