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Reged: 10/11/06
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[quote]I'm wondering if that's what I should do to get my divorce over quickly. Offer some cash to be done and out. My stbx is piss poor, but he's the one who left the marriage, he's the one who racked up the bills. I think I just need to cut my losses and run. Pony up the cash and run. Plus, it would save some lawyers fees in the long run. I have no idea how my stbx is paying his lawyer! I just want to be done and over with this mess. [/quote]
I was trying to get her to take some $$$$$ just to end this bullsh!t but she would not talk to me at all. My lawyer wrote letters to her lawyer saying we sould all sit down and work out a deal and all her lawyer would do is write back saying "my client has no interest negotiating under these circumstances" I was like "what circumstances are they talking about" EVERY time I tried to call her she would hang up on me. This went on from May of '07 until Feb of this year. She new I wanted to get this behind me so she dragged it out all she could just to spite me. Going to court forced her to deal with it. I am SO HAPPY I am rid of her.
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Reged: 05/21/07
Posts: 535
Loc: PA
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[quote] I can honestly say that getting married is the biggest mistake I ever made.
I wish you good luck in your situation and hope all turns out well for you. [/quote]
thanks but see i guess i'm messed up because getting married wasnt a mistake in my eyes. Just how she is dealing with her disability got me. And if i find another 'right' girl id love to be married again...can you say..prenup :)
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call me WWIL...PA resident 39 year old , married 11 years, together 12...splitting in 13th year.
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I don't think I would ever get married again. What would be the point?
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Reged: 05/21/07
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[quote]I don't think I would ever get married again. What would be the point? [/quote]
while this is NOT a reason "TO" get married, it's a benefit of marriage, especially given all i went thru in my case. If i met someone new and only lived together, and that person had a sucky job with little/no insurance, and they got sick, would i have to pay for their care and hospital bills etc? Legally, doubt it, but morally of course i'd want to. Whereas if she was married to me everything would be free and paid for via my insurance.
just pointing out a reason that a marriage makes sense. I could never have come up with the 12000 last year her meds cost nor all the costs of surgeries throughout the years. I'm confident we are way over the 100K mark on all her health things.
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call me WWIL...PA resident 39 year old , married 11 years, together 12...splitting in 13th year.
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I wonder if she is this worried about you?
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