melanie14
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avoid the jerk..get a babysitter. Don't ask him any more!And it's okay to cry. What would you be teaching your daughter if you hide your emotions? I don't get that line of reasoning. You are human and yes, you have feelings. Hope you are doing better!
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abbysfv
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Posts: 390
Loc: LA, CA
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melanie14 I think he's actually more concerned with him looking bad to our daughter. He doesn't want her to think daddy made mommy cry.
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To my ex - you are going to make someone else happy... for a very short time.
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abbysfv
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Loc: LA, CA
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you are on your own as far as getting to the therapist, or the grocery store or anywhere for that matter.
my stbx has cancelled on me so many times that it's on his time that i DONT make appointments/plans etc.
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Yeah same here he's already flaked on me a bunch of times. Basically when it's convenient for him he wants to see her. That's why I was so surprised that he would come to me and ask for more days. I guess the depression excuse was all he could come up with.
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To my ex - you are going to make someone else happy... for a very short time.
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tookway2much
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Reged: 03/31/08
Posts: 519
Loc: Going toward the light!
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As we hear the word "X" should we automatically assume negative words can be exchanged. Don't worry about what he is saying. If you feel that you need to see a therapist, make arrangements to go without discussing it with your s2bx.
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scbeck
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Loc: New Brunswick Canada
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[quote]melanie14 I think he's actually more concerned with him looking bad to our daughter. He doesn't want her to think daddy made mommy cry. [/quote]
Abby I don't know your story, I know I have heard it but my brain has tured to mush during this mess,but just a reactionary thought when I read this post" Then he shoould have done everything he could have to make this marriage work and if it can't then he should be Mr Nice in getting things settled, that way Mommy won't be crying. Sad to say but he is the reason.
I will step off the soap box now. It just pi$$ed me off to think he is worried about his image when he obviously was unfaithful.
Christine
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abbysfv
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Loc: LA, CA
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Christine,
He has NPD, his image is his first priority. He's so messed up that he doesn't even realize that seeing another woman had any effect on our marriage. He has a very strange sense of entitlement.
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To my ex - you are going to make someone else happy... for a very short time.
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